ex left for a married girl?
i was with my ex-fiance for seven years. we met in california. he was a marine, and i was working as a cocktail waitress. he got kicked out of the corps for smoking pot and i let him move in with me from the baracks. we moved to colorado and stayed with my parents while we got on our feet. we fought a lot, but we loved each other. he was mean to me. he would say things like he didn't need me and i was stupid and i needed to get my mind right. he pulled my hair. he put my head through a wall. i just stayed because i was sooo in love with him. then he got a good job and didn't want to ever take me out or buy me anything. i started getting sick. turns out i have multiple sclerosis. he gets angry because i couldn't work at the time. his job then moved him across the state. he was so mean to me the one time i went to see him that i told myself i would never go see him again. he started mellowing out and being nicer, but it was still really rough. he then informs me that he has met this girl and he is breaking up with me for her. she's a waitres and makes good money. she's from indonesia and is different and sexy and makes him laugh. he and i would sit on the sofa next to each other and i would crack jokes and try to make him laugh, and he would just sit there, stoic. i thought there was something wrong with me. so it turns out this great and sexy girl is married with a son she has abandoned. they have move in together and she's still married to another guy. she had him break up with me and now she's not handling her business. she lies all the time. i want to get over this. i want to move on. i feel better as it's been almost a year, but i still think about him and what him and that girl did to me EVERY SINGLE DAY. i asked my doc if stress can make my ms flare and he said yes. i know he made me sick. but i let him. i want the karma police to get him, but he's like the greasiest guy ever and just slips right past them. how can he and that girl get off scott free after their behavior? it's not fair! i'm sick and broke and lonely, and he is not making loads of money.
Marriage & Divorce - 9 Answers
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YOU SHOULD JUMP THAT SKANKY BITOCAH. IM JUST SAYING
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Supafine
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too longgggggggggggggg, i did not even read it all. grow up and get a GOOD education, you need it!
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Trust me, what goes around, comes around. And it NOT pretty when it does! Have seen it happen so many times. Karma works, baby! This guy was MEAN to you, starting way back, and he proved himself to be a lout and a pig. Time to put this rubbish in the trash where they BOTH belong, close the door behind them, don't look back or waste one ounce of your energy on even THINKING about this sorry piece of humanity, and then you move on with a positive outlook for a GREAT future--and that's what will happen! Peace!
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You need to find your self respect and forget about this loser. You already WASTED 7 YEARS ON HIM...and he is still controlling your life. Get a hobby, and move on.
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He is not the greatest guy ever - OMGeee! He put your head through a wall! Karma will catch him! Trust me they aren't happy. First of all, let's take a good look at her. Who cares where she is from. Trifling is trifling in every nation (btw, where are both of you from?) She left her own child! She must have a lot of self-hate to leave her own baby! If she isn't loyal to her baby, she won't be loyal to him! And, him.... this is a man who feels so bad bout himself that he has to get aggressive with women to feel powerful. They are already miserable and it will only get worse. Hope you get satisfaction out of knowing that. Happiness is the best revenge, honey.
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Think of it this way. You are free and the experience gives knowledge. You are rid of that b+Tc$! She will have to cater to that bum and you are a free bird to move on in life. It takes about a year to get over the hurt and the day will happen when you stop thinking of that creep. That girl did you a favor because now she has to deal with his crap. Concentrate on your future and go back to college or what ever trade you want and make your own future. Have a life that you can call your own.
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You dont really still want him, do you?
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The short is answer is to find someone else. If you want to pursue this guy and hope he will straighten out his life, become this super person, go back with you, I suggest that you, your ex BF, and Miss Indonesia see about being on the next episode of Dr. Phil.
