Tuesday, August 28, 2012

what to do ? ...........?

what to do ? ...........?
what to do , what to do...? ok , my grandad is in his 80's , and his doctor has been telling him for the past two years to go to a rest-home , we moved to indonesia last week , and we havent found an apartment yet , we are still looking , and were no where near settled down. my grandfather has been telling me that he wants to come here for a holiday , but whenever my father is talking to him , he doesnt mention it .. he told me on the phone today that he plans on visiting us next month and asking our adress , but we dont even have one yet.. i am worried that once he gets here , he will be very ill from the long flight from autralia to indonesia .. he said he is feeling like a lonely old man , but that is really all his fault .. he didnt look after his wife , she left him , he didnt look after his money , he now has none ...because he likes to impress people and used to take young ladys out for dinner and taking them on holidays & paying for everything and then go on about how 'it turned heads ' and all those ladys would keep ringing him , he had a good business , was earning a reasonable amount of money ..but now its all gone .. all his workers are retiring and there are people calling up asking with jobs , but he says he cant , because he only has a few workers left as they are all retiring and hes too old to train more people bcoz he is very old now.. and he has no more money.. no women call him any more , now that he has no more money.. he gets very grumpy and shouts alot at people on the phone , he talks like he is a rich man , and that has led his friends to not talk to him anymore.. he doesnt have anything left in australia ..not even a house .. but he receives money from the government (pention) and the government will subsidise his daily medication because he has had about 6 heart attacks and a lot of minor strokes .. the government will pay for him to go to a rest home in australia .. i am worried that once he gets here .. he will be very sick .. and my father has just moved here and has lots of pressure on his job , he is working 7 days a week at the moment until everthing is running smoothly which could be a few months away. we are just about to enrol in school , so we are really not settled yet..and hearing my grandfather say he is coming here .. is worrying me , because i think it will stress my dad .. i have mentioned a little bit about this to my dad and he just said he doesnt want his dad to come here and pulled more cigarettes out .... it is very hard because no insurance company will insure him .. we have made many inquiries ..and where we are is just a very hard place for him .. so i dont know how my dad will juggle all this .. since we are new to this country .. another thing that worries me .. is him not wanting to leave .. i think that he will buy a one way ticket and want to stay with us permantly .. we could not handle this , since he is supposed to be in a rest home .. and we will not be living in a house made for old people...we will be in a apartment maybe 30 stories high..and it is not close to a hospital due to all the traffic.. he has other children in aus , but he never even visits them ! he had one son , who he never visited since he was 5 ! and he still hasnt visited his sons widow ..or his grandchildren from them , or his great granddaughter .. he has another son who lives just two hours away and he never visits them.. i dont know why he wants to visit us and be a burden ? we are such a long way away .. and when we lived in the pacific , myself and my mom used to fly to australia every 3 months to visit him , because he would say he was lonely .. he is also an actor .. it was his proffesion for many year.. he did many pantomines and was offered jobs over seas as an actor.. so i cant really tell if he is emotional or just pretending , he trys to make us feel sorry for him , and hang his botttom lip.. but hes really old to travel now..he might end up very sick.. he needs to lie down atleast once every hour and hes been like that for years .. he also goes on about his friends living in retirement villages and cost three hundred and fifty thousand $ ... but all those friends had houses that they sold to move there.. he doesnt i think he feels we should pay for him to live in a fancy retirement village or he will come live here with us .. we have been internationally transferred 4 times this year and what if we have to do it again ? we even struglle to pay our international schooling ,so hes just going to another expense.. i dont know why he is trying to burden us ..where he is now is the best place for him becaus of the financial aid ..and the medical resources..maybe if we were in a country tht had good resources for oldies .. and had our own house ..we could make him a grandpa wing and he could live next door to us ,and eat with us . but not here ..were just not in tht position .. im sorry for the longness , and i know this sounds mean , but i just d
Senior Citizens - 5 Answers
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OK- first of all let me say that I can tell that you are a very kind-hearted and empathetic person. This can be a blessing and a curse. The blessing is the joy it will bring you when you can help people while staying true to yourself and your boundaries. The curse comes in that if you do not find a way to lay boundaries down and stick to them, then you will attract people to you that will take what they can from you (emotionally, physically, financially, etc.) and then leave. It is not an accident that your Grandpa is only talking to you about this and not to his son. It is completely unfair of him to put that kind of pressure on you! I absolutely agree that if he did make it there, it would be with the expectation that he will live with you. I understand that it pains you to see suffering and your concern for your dad, but ultimately it is between them. This is going to be one of many times in your life when you will have the opportunity to set appropriate boundaries. The next time your grandpa brings it up, tell him something like "well, what does dad say about that? or "I'm sorry you're feeling that way, have you talked to your other kids about that?" Empathize, but then try to take yourself out of the equation. Again, as the grandchild, it is inappropriate for him to be putting you in this position. And, as much as it does suck, you're right- he made his bed and now he needs to lay in it (so to speak.) I just keep thinking "you reap what you sow." I mean, it sucks to be him, but you didn't put him in this mess. Good luck to you and your life and this situation. That which does not kill us does make us stronger. And, on the plus side, this gives you the opportunity to see what the outcome is of making certain life choices and living certain lifestyles. I mean, I'm all for living in the moment and enjoying the here and now, but within reason. There has to be a balance between living for today and planning for tomorrow. As an after-thought, you mentioned that he owns his own business, maybe he can look into selling it. It wouldn't hurt to look into, especially since he has jobs that he's having to turn down. That tells me that there is still value to it.
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Easy.....leave it up to his Dr. to give the orders to put him in a home....and they can do that because he sounds like he's ready for 24/7 care and unless a family member is willing to step up to that job the last resort is nursing home!! Don't feel bad if he blew his money and can't live in an assisted living it's his own fault. Your dad doesn't need this problem had his dad not blown his son's inheritance maybe things could be different!! Let your dad have his life while he has his health!! This may sound harsh but I went through this with my aunt!!
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You should tell your father what your Grandfather has been telling you about visiting. You also might try to not worry about thinks that you cannot change. There was a time when families took care of their own and it wasn't considered a "burden". To had that your father didn't have him declared incapable and put into a home. Some of us understand that modern families consider warehousing the elderly appropriate.
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Although you are very worried, this cannot be your problem. Your father needs to take charge and talk to his siblings about your grandfather and what is best for him. They may all need to go to Australia and have a talk with granddad to make sure he is settled in a place that will care for him.
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take a deep breath first. first of all you have to discuss this problem with your family especially your parents since the responsibility isn't yours. I do understand that you felt kinda stuck, but please be positive about all of this situation, think positive and don't push yourself too hard on this issue. I do know international schooling cost and living cost quite expensive in jakarta. I suggest you to find an alternative beside apartment, maybe some house or so, but again it depends on how long will you stay in Jakarta. You Must discuss it with your parents, try to find the solution together. the solution itself maybe include say the truth to your grandpa, it's also very important to make him know about this whole situation. it's just my two cents. my best wishes for you :)


Tuesday, August 14, 2012

what should I do with my life?! what career fits my awesomenessss!?

what should I do with my life?! what career fits my awesomenessss!?
I'm interested in learning about money , personal finances ,banking,stocks ,estate planning etc and making a buttload of coin (of course!) Maybe someday being a Entrepreneur! I also thought about being a Cruise Director...I saw one when I was little and he made me ,I mean people, laugh so hard they peed themselves, and I want to make them laugh too!!! or a lawyer so I can file 50,000 lawsuits against crappy landlords & bastards .. I'm also getting my MBA soon I want to run my own vacation business with beach huts ,snorkeling ,skydiving, parasailing,and a floating tiki bar! So how do I find out about financing and local regulations in the Bahamas or Bermuda or Aruba or Indonesia? I also invent aweeesome stuff ,ever hear of flip-flops? YA! that wasnt me..................BUT it COULD'VE been!!!! look for my rocket flip-flops in the future!!!! Is there some career quiz or something to make up my mind?! THANKS!!! awwwwwww I'm sorry hockeygirl we all can't be shallow whores that live in a trailer park with no dreams...... I think you should look in the mirror baby get off your fat mooch ass and stop shoving your face full of twinkies your bleched blonde bimbo.....just because your redneck alcoholic father touches you when you sleep doesnt give you the excuse to be a nasty bitch hahaha burn AHH!! I already changed my major 3 times in 3 months!!
Other - Careers & Employment - 12 Answers
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your an idiot
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Dishwasher. Whose next?
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just go to costa rica
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LOL HOCKEYGIRL291 I ALMOST DIED!!! That was so funny . :) lol
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i have no idea but hah youre awesomenesss :D nothing can fit your awesomenesss ah you remind me of me!!!! uhm just go with the entrepenurere thing ..or oral surgeon!! :D awesomeness... ahhhh you should add me
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How about an infomercial person or a motivational speaker??
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Read the book "Confessions of a Shopaholic" By Sophie Kinsella Something about this reminds me of this book. :)
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I would say a mutual fund manager, because they get paid 500,000 to 1,5 mi a year, and it is fun managing peoples money. Hope I helped!
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I suggest you live your life in your parents basement and mooch off them. You might want to stay out of the gene pool for sake of future generations...Just kidding, good luck w/ the floating tiki bar. I might stop by for a drink sometime!
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Bar tender Or...If ur really ambitious, a club/pub owner. U get paid loads 4 that. Start investing now! U sound like the kind of wacky person that will give a club/pub a personality...Or maybe a tourist guide? Lol idk just go wherever life takes u... Answer 4 answer? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvJOMrqYrp5nUuNH928Ljfzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080715114935AA5r2SJ
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lol.that made me laugh out loud in a room full of nobody.ima nerd. lol. okay, so just be a banker. there is this really friggin long stupid quiz that really helps, its for your personality and what you wanna do with your life.here it is.bum,bumbum! http://quiz.ivillage.co.uk/uk_work/tests/career.htm hope it helps;)
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Sounds like You're Awesomeness needs to do some serious thinking. No one can make up your mind but you. And remember, if you try one thing and don't like it, you can always change professions. Good luck in life!


Tuesday, August 7, 2012

IS it true? yahoo had any lottery program?

IS it true? yahoo had any lottery program?
E.A.A.S ON LINE LOTTERY PROGRAM (REG NO: 194562) FROM: BARRISTER ZAKIR USAHA BUBA MOHAMED. ESQ. ATTORNEY & FUDICIARY OFFICER E.A.A.S. INTERNATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS JLN. HAJJ MERDEKA SELATAN, No. 44/47. BESIDE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA EMBASSY JAKARTA 10110-INDONESIA. TEL:+ 62-856-70-79-787,+62-21-9584-3217,+62-21-9584-3218. E-MAIL:mohamedbuba_eaas@hotmail.com ASSALAMU ALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAH HI WA BARKATU HU. THIS IS TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE RECEIPT OF YOUR MAIL AND YOUR CONTACT DETAILS WELL NOTED TOGETHER WITH YOUR TICKET NUMBER. ENSURE TO QUOTE YOUR TICKET NUMBER AND CATEGORY IN ALL YOUR CORRESPONDENTS. CAREFULLY PRINT OUT THE ATTACHED WINNERS MERIT AWARD CERTIFICATE & FILL IT SCAN, ATTACH AND RETURN ALL TO THIS OFFICE ALONGSIDE THE OTHER PRE-REQUISITES TO ENHANCE THE IMMEDIATE DELIVERY OF YOUR CHEQUE. PLEASE FOLLOW THESE DIRECTIVES AND ENSURE THAT: YOUR TICKET NUMBER AND CATEGORY OF WINNING ARE QUOTED CORRECTLY BECAUSE EURO-AFRO ASIAN SWEEPSTAKE LOTTERY INTERNATIONAL AND ITS AFFILIATES WILL NOT BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY DISQUALIFICATION OR DELAY IN PAYMENT DUE TO WRONGLY QUOTED NUMBERS. PLEASE MAKE SURE THAT YOUR CORRECT ADDRESS IS FORWARDED TO US BECAUSE ALL NON EUROPIAN WINNERS WILL HAVE THEIR CHEQUES DELIVERED TO THEM WITH THEIR GIVEN ADDRESSES THROUGH THE APPOINTED SPECIAL DELIVERY COURIER SERVICE. BE INFORMED THAT YOUR CHEQUE HAS BEEN DULY SIGNED AND ENDORSED FROM THE HEADOFFICE IN UNITED KINGDOM {UK}. THEREFORE NO TAMPERING OR DEDUCTION CAN BE MADE ON YOUR CHEQUE TO AVOID DISHONOURING YOUR CHEQUE ON PRESENTATION FOR PAYMENT AT THE BANK. YOU ARE REQUIRED TO CHOOSE FROM THESE THREE OPTIONS BELOW ON HOW YOU WISH YOUR WON CHEQUE TO BE DELIEVERED TO YOU AS YOUR FUND IS NOT IN A LIQUID FORM BUT IN BANK CHEQUE THIS ADVISE COMPLIERS WITH THE ANTI-FRAUD SECTION 2,SUBSECTION (IV) OF THE PROCEDURAL MANUAL OF THE FUNDS DISBURSMENTS AGREEMENTS EXISTING BETWEEN COURIER COMPANIES AND E.A.A.S LOTTERY COMPANY UNITED KINGDOM {UK}: OPTION 1 : COMMING TO JAKARTA INDONESIA You will required to come to Jakarta Indonesia to pick your prize personally from prize Debursement centre Jakarta indonesia. Hence you are therefore CLEARED and can now claim your wins .You are therefore requested to come in person to the Disbursements Center of the E.A.A.S Online lottery Program International with the following requirements: (a) A printed copy of your WINNING NOTIFICATION (b) An International Passport or Drivers license (c) Six (2) passport photograph (3*4 size) Option 2: COURIER DELIVERY FEDEX Mailing......................................$305.00 Insurance..................................$250.00 Vat (5%)....................................$422.00 TOTAL......................................$977 TIME OF DELIVERY...................... .72HOURS The insurance company declined reverse payment for the courier, stating that it is against their professional policy towards ensuring the safe delivery of the draft to you. That if a reverse payment is made, and something goes wrong, that we/you cannot sue the courier company or insurance company to recover the full value of the fund as stipulated in the draft since payment for insurance cover was not made at point of mailing.With the above reason, reverse payment is ruled out.Forward the cost of mailing your draft with any of the courier channel cost you choose above to us. Option 3: BANK TO BANK TELEGRAFIC TRANSFER The said amount claim $250,000 USD (Two Hundred and fifty,thousand USD. will be wired to your bank account via swift banktransfer.Condition: The cost of C.O.T (commission of transfer) being charged by our transferring bank is(i.e$2,738) of the cash being transferred will be paid by yo u. Note: That your prize is protected by a hardcover insurance policy by , which makes it impossible to deduct any amount from the money before it has been remitted to you. This means that the above charges cannot be deducted from the prize and hence must be provided by you first before your prize is transferred to you.Please respond to this email by making a selection from the three options above. NOTE: Services Render by any of the COURIER SERVICES is to be paid by you and not the lottery board. CONGRATULATION ONCE MORE, PROPER ADHERANCE TO THE ABOVE INSTRUCTIONS WILL YIELD MAXIMUM AND EFFECTIVE SERVICE. BEST REGARDS AND ALLAH HAFIZ. BARRISTER ZAKIR USAHA BUBA MOHAMED CHAMBERS. FIDUCIARY AGENT,MOBILE:(+62-856-70-79-787). OFFICE TEL:+62-21-9584-3217,+62-21-9584-3218. Windows Liveâ„¢: Keep your life in sync. Check it out. IS this mail from YAHOO or FROUD?
Spam & Bulk Mail - 5 Answers
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It’s a scam thousands of these deceptive emails are sent every day there used to commit identity theft, or try to get you to send money. DO NOT send any bank/personal details click the link below to see what yahoo say about this. http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/mail/original/abuse/abuse-63.html You can report this with the mail abuse form below. http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/mail/original/abuse.html To report a phishing attempt with the form below. http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/security/forms/phishing.html Or you can forward a phishing attempt email to the address below. phishing@cc.yahoo-inc.com.
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Yahoo never had a Lotto I Think it is Fake
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Absolutely not.
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Scam!!!!! That message is both a fake and an outright fraud. Don't contact the phishers and give them any of your personal information at all. Spam that scam message straight into oblivion right away. This is one lottery you'll never win because it's "bogus." Another thing, the phishers telling you to "keep this lottery information confidential" would indicate to you not to say anything about this to anybody until they have finished scamming you.
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Sorry friend but there is no Microsoft, Yahoo or other e-mail lottery, it's a scam do not answer do not give personal information.The following sites give more information http://www.snopes.com/crime/fraud/nigeri... http://www.thescambaiter.com/forum/showt... http://www.hoax-slayer.com/email-lottery... .Also If you go to the following site you will get some info on ID theft www.identity-theft.org.uk the iinternet is safe enough if you are careful but please answer nothing that you are doubtful about.Good Luck and be careful
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It is a scam to get your personal information and/or money. Do not respond to it. Report it to yahoo, so they are aware. And for your E-mail safety, remember: Never open E-mail unless you are absolutley sure of who sent it, treat ALL others as spam. Never give out your personal information out to anyone, be it E-mail, snail mail, phone calls or at your front door.



Wednesday, August 1, 2012

is it a fake or true email?

is it a fake or true email?
MY DEAR I have received several email whit this concept that my email address has won US $250000 for example I send to you this email.please answer me is this a true email or fake? they told me that I SHOULD PAYMENT $us520 for teransfir my cheque to my address in UAE. HELP ME PLEASE. THIS EMAIL IS: Yahoo! Mail U.K.N.F LOTTO PROMOTION UKNF NATIONAL HEADQUARTERS LONDON Dear Sir / Madam, We are happy to inform you that your E-mail ID has won a prize Cheque money of Fifty Thousand Two Hundred and U.S. Dollars ($ 250,000.00) for the month of FEBRUARY Lottery Promotion Which is proudly organized by United Kingdom National Fund Organization London and sponsored by Yahoo! to motivate and Encourage the Use of the Internet globally Worldwide. Annually Yahoo! collects all the E-mail id's of the people that are online on Yahoo! Among the millions that subscribe to Yahoo! Eight people are been selected all over the World. Our winners are selected through electronic balloting System without the winner applying. We are Congratulating you for being one of the people selected for this Second Random For The Year 2010. Please note that your lucky winning number falls within our Asian representative's booklet in Jakarta, Indonesia as indicated in your FILE NUMBER: FD2349QUID. In view of this, your won prize Cheque money of U.S. $ 250,000.00 would be released to you by Our Asian Fiduciary Agent, Our Asian Fiduciary Agent will immediately commence the process to facilitated the release of your checks as soon as you contact Barrister Abubakar Ada's office in Jakarta, Indonesia. How to claim, kindly CONTACT Barrister Abubakar Adamu's Office in Jakarta, Indonesia below his contact E-mail Address and Telephone Numbers for your claims with the following details below to enable the speedy evaluation and processing of your winning. BARRISTER ABUBAKAR ADAMU E-mail: abubakar_adamu@live.co.uk OR abubakar.adamu_chambers@ymail.com Tel / Mobile: (+62-81932061336, +62-2136920389 ) You Are Required to fill below Verification form with your details and forward it directly to our Asian claim agent E-mail Id for verification purposes without any further delay. Make sure to claim your won prize on or before 14 days, otherwise your won prize Cheque money will be returned unclaimed To Our National Headquarters London and will be donated to charity homes. Winner's Verification Form..... * FULL NAME :.............................................................. * PLACE OF BIRTH :..................................................... * AGE :............ GENDER :..............STATUS :............. * MOBILE NUMBER :..................................................... * JOB / OCCUPATION :................................................. * HOME CONTACT ADDRESS :.................................... * COUNTRY :......................... CITY :............................ These Are Your Winning Identification Numbers ..... * TICKET NUMBER ............................... Uknf 6781345 * BATCH NUMBER ............Uknf 20 25 65 90 43 15 78 * SERIAL NUMBER ............................. Uknf 6/984/120 * DRAW NUMBER ............ Uknf 0009857/16738/00001 * CATEGORY .......................................... 2nd * REFERENCE NUMBER ... Uknf 23 441 753 271 9746 As soon as you contact Barrister Abubakar Adamu's Office Jakarta, Indonesia, He Will Advise you on the Procedure to claim your won prize Cheque money immediately. You also advice to print out, fill the winner's application form attached to this email and forward it to our Asian Claim Agent in Jakarta Indonesia via his E-mail Id For Quick and Easy claim of your won prize cheque. FOR SECURITY REASONS, YOU ARE STRONGLY ADVISED TO KEEP ALL YOUR WINNING CONFIDENTIAL TILL CLAIM IS MADE TO AVOID WRONG OR DOUBLE CLAIMING. ANY BREACH OF CONFIDENTIAL DISQUALIFIES YOU FROM GETTING YOUR PRIZE. YOUR ADDRESS HAS WON Congratulations Once More! Yours Faithfully, Dr. Louise Brandy Finance Director, Barrister Abubakar Adamu Fiduciary Agent Dr. Richard Marvel Head of Administration. [YOU MUST CLAIM YOUR PRICE ON OR BEFORE 14 DAYS]
Spam & Bulk Mail - 9 Answers
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Completely fake. DO NOT ANSWER IT.
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FAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BEWARE
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Yeah honey this is fake. I get 20 of these every week. When you're not sure about a letter use this website http://www.scamomatic.com/ paste the email in the thing and it will tell you.
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who would give away money to random people? Use common sense. Of course it is a fake.
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Absolutely FAKE... using email to tell people to win big prize is definitely a fake trick !
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itzzz sooo sooo sooooo big question!!! i cant read!! sorry
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Fake, if you win money you never have to send money. Everyone gets these emails every week
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You don't get anything for nothing, , it's a scam do not answer do not give personal information.The following sites give more information www.scambusters-419.co.uk www.truthorfiction.com .Also If you go to the following link you will get some info on ID theft www.identity-theft.org.uk please answer nothing that you are doubtful about.Good Luck and be careful
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Well, Ashkan, did you enter that lottery, you know buy a ticket????? No??? You can not win something you did not enter or play. Besides Yahoo, Hotmail, Gmail, Microsoft, MSN and Aol do not have lotteries, reward programs, promotions, or contests. When an E-mail offer sounds too good to be true, then it is definitely not true. It is a scam to get your personal information and/or your money, or both! Do not respond to it. Report it, forward it to the FTC at spam@uce.gov and to the abuse desk of the sender's ISP. For yahoo, report them here: http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/mail/ya… Choose Fraud as the reason for the violation you're reporting on. Also, if the E-mail appears to be impersonating a bank or other company or organization, forward the message to the actual organization.