I feel that my husband is telling I am just a wife and he can replace me anytime?
A few years ago I had asked my husband to chat with me online and he says oh I don't know how to do it and I am embarassed to learn. Now he would chat with his folks in Indonesia. I had asked him last night why was it before I had asked you to chat with me online instead of calling so nothing to pay and he says BUT THIS IS MY BROTHER. I was hurt by that. Nothing really matter to him when I am involved. He would hurt me, cuss at me, I even lost my haring on my left ear and somewhat on my right. It hurts me so much that I don't matter to him. I don't know how to live like this with him. THen the other day I saw his email about sending money but he can't do it right now because he says of financial problem here. It seems like it coming to me that he never really loved me. He just wanted to come here to the US to make better money and move on with his life. I had asked him I can't have anymore kids. Dr said that to us so I asked "Can you have the surgery? instead of me because I will have to be hospitalized?" He says "NO. If thats the problem lets just not have sex at all" Now I am realizing I have the feeeling he wants to have another family. He must be waiting for me to make more money then he will leave. I don't know what to do. I feel hurt and used. I don't know how to live wiht him under a roof. I feel betrayeed.
Marriage & Divorce - 6 Answers
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Are you the breadwinner and he is married to you because he came from India, needs his Green Card? If that's the case, he can be deported, and get a divorce. Take your kids & run! He is abusive, and disrespecting you and only doing what he does for his family and for himself, and of course how can not one feel betrayed? It is the worst kind!
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He hurt you so bad you lost your hearing ? put him in jail..leave ! don't wait for him to leave..get yourself away from him now !
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Tell Him To Do It,,, I Bet he will shut his mouth It's just his small self- worth- and huge ego-shouting out!!!!
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You don't know what to do? 1. pack his stuff and put on front lawn 2. change locks 3. change all names of bills to your name solely 4. divorce him 5. F*ck someone else
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why not play him at his own game, Use him for all he is worth. stash back money he gives you or you take from him while sleeping get a divorce and take half or even more than what he has if you all have any kids together at all,, Start acting like you don't give a damn about him ,, or what he does, , You haft to be your own person don't depend on him , But in the mean time protect yourself , If he is hitting you , get him back when he is sleeping , Or fix him a big hot breakfast with hot grease and throw it on him why he is at the table,, No point in a man hitting or hurting a woman at All....
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