Husband is threatening to leave after 20 years of marriage?
We build a beautiful house 3 years ago. Suddenly he's fed up with me and claims that I've been a bad wife through out this marriage. Though, I'm the one still sitting at home taking care of everything waiting on him and the kids, while he's done exactly what he's wanted all these years; many degrees and a good job. I'm supposed to do whatever he expects me to do - I can only enjoy things if he's okay with it. I'm not allowed to get upset or mad but he can yell and throw mean fits and insults anytime because then that's when he's going to leave and make me suffer. I've been through ups and downs with the marriage, now when he's making so much money this is when he wants to leave and as he says, make me provide for myself and will only support me and the kids with very little monthly payment that can hardly pay the rent. Which I'm not sure that I can do because its just hard and scary. All these years I could have been doing something for myself, but he claimed he wanted an "old fashioned marriage" a homemaker. I don't have a degree and I have a small part time job that I've been doing for the past 2 yrs. He claims that he's going to move back to his country (Indonesia) overseas where no one can interfere with him. He has so much money stashed up over there and god knows where else, that no one has access to and has very little savings here (I know this for a fact). How can I get him to support us completely when he's going to get a much lower paying job in his country? I don't have any family members except my brother who's already struggling financially.
Marriage & Divorce - 5 Answers
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1 :
hmmm..What a terrible situation you're in. You really did a good job supporting him, but I believe the reality is this, you need to file for divorce right away. This guy is going to scoot the country, and he just might seel the house behind your back too. Hire an attorney immediately. If you are serious about protecting your assets..I have some great tips you can do on Monday morning...just email me.
2 :
i wouldn't care how much money he has, i wouldn't want his money supporting me, all he ever cared about was being filthy rich. i would just leave and never look back. maybe then he'll realize what a true treasure he lost.
3 :
You decide what is best for you and the children. He wants out...let him go and smile. Your attorney will handle the rest.
4 :
as the now old shoe he is leaving you in the closet just because he has money stashed all over the world in his personal accounts does not mean that a good lawyer can't make him cough it up through his nose get legal council and get an injunction to keep him in the USA until the divorce is settled. tmm
5 :
Go out and find the best attorney that will make him pay and will be able to put a freeze on all his finance.
